There are two essential elements to a legally binding wedding: the vows or promises you make to one another and the proclamation by the officiant that you are now married. All other elements are optional. The following expresses the traditional wedding ceremony elements:
- The procession – The traditional wedding march as the bride walks down the aisle, symbolizing her move from the past, into the moment where she is first witnessed, then approached by the groom, until they stand together at the altar.
- The convocation - Consists of the words spoken to commence the wedding, guests being called upon to note what is about to transpire.
- The Invocation – Words spoken to call on God, or whatever outside presence you choose to acknowledge and bear witness to your ceremony
- The readings – The officiant, a friend, or family member, reads selections you have chosen to inspire and expand your views of love and marriage.
- The address – Constitutes a message of celebration by the officiant at your ceremony, setting the cornerstone of meaning for the new life you are entering.
- The consecration – The words following the address serve to elevate the message you have just heard. Consecrate means to make holy.
- The expression of intent – This expression calls your attention to the seriousness of the promises you are about to make – the state you are about to enter into.
- The vows – Your vows are the emotionally and morally binding part of the ceremony. Vows are love made tangible.
- The blessing and exchanging of rings - The material symbol of the bond that is created in marriage. More than anything else in your wedding, the rings are what you will take with you reminding you daily that you are loved and that you have been chosen.
- The pronouncement of marriage - The presentation by the officiant of you as husband and wife.
- The kiss - The kiss seals the promise.
- The benediction - A brief, buoyant moment to send you off with blessings.
- The recession - The spirit of the recession is one of joy and jubilation as you are ready to go out, united, into the world, followed by your attendants and parents.
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